How many times has this happened to you… ?
You’ve had a heart-to-heart conversation with yourself and you’re tired of playing all your normal games. Your passions are more important than the time and attention you’ve been devoting to them. You’re here in this life to USE your gifts and skills, but lately they’ve been cooling on the back burner and getting lost in the overwhelm of the day-to-day busyiness.
So you tell yourself this time it’s going to be different. This time you’re fully committed to stepping out in a big way like never before. This time you’re READY.
You’re ready to stop pretending that the life you’ve created is perfect so you can start creating a life that is more aligned with who you are.
You’re ready to shift out of the patterns that hold you back because you don’t want to be the bottleneck in why you’re not honoring your spiritual calling.
You’re ready to do what it takes to be more in control of your life with the energy and vitality to experience more joy in life again.
So, you get SET with the things you think you should be doing:
You make your lists, read more books, overcommit, and find yourself slowly losing steam once again, because all you’ve really done is give yourself another set of tasks you have to complete each day and it doesn’t feel good.
So you STOP.
Before long, the self-loathing and self-abuse kicks in to add even more stress and confusion to what you were feeling before you started. You work so hard but it seems like you’re always spinning your wheels and never getting ahead.
You’re stuck… again. And this time wasn’t much different than any of the other times you’ve tried.
Can you relate to that, ?
Here’s what’s missing:
You need to tap into who you are and what you want from your life. You don’t need other people to tell you what that means, you need to allow yourself to tap into your innate wisdom. You already have all the answers within yourself.
What you need is to love and accept yourself, unapologetically, for who you are. You need to understand how you’re wired so you can work with your strengths (and weaknesses) rather than forcing so much. When you embrace more of the feminine energy (more being, less doing), you will align with the current of life flowing with you and through you.
You also need to make yourself a priority and honor your deepest desires – not just in words, but in the actions you take. You need to be willing to be uncomfortable, to ask for help, to say No when you need to.
That means being willing to become someone who you are not right now.
Be willing to lose your (current) self to find yourself.
Because if you can’t figure this out, you’re going to have to settle for less than you want and make hard choices or sacrifices you don’t want to make.
And that’s not really an option that’s ok with you, is it?
So, here’s to breaking the cycle and finally setting yourself free!
Lots of love,
P.S. If you want to have the freedom and flexibility in your life to be fully present in whatever you’re doing, so you can succeed in everything you do, then let’s talk. Book a Clarity Call with me to discover your specific next steps and an action plan to achieve it.