Here’s what to do when things aren’t coming together

How many times have you wanted something, but things keep getting in the way?

It can be so frustrating and discouraging when obstacles keep appearing or the timing isn’t right or you just don’t feel ready and things aren’t coming together the way you’d like them to.

If this sounds familiar, don’t worry.  It’s super normal and your awareness of it indicates you’re ready for the next step.

When your desires aren’t easily lining up for you, it’s often a clue that your beliefs (and energetic vibrations) are out of alignment with what you want.

You may consciously desire something but if it’s not coming then something within you is blocking you from achieving it.  And that’s ok.  There’s no need to attached shame or guilt to this understanding.

You are where you are and the thoughts and beliefs that have brought you this far have been exactly what you needed to get to this place in time with the desires you hold. So breathe easy and know that you’re now ready for the next best version of yourself.

So much will shift when you realize that you, yourself, are often the one who’s holding yourself back.  You’ll discover that you no longer need to be bound by your limited thoughts and beliefs and that you can choose a new way of thinking, believing, and living.  When that happens, opportunities will flow more easily to you, decisions will become easier, and you’ll feel deeply supported by the Universe.

If you feel you might be bound by your beliefs, I encourage you to explore these three areas and discover how you can shift into a new and higher level of who you are capable of becoming.

1.  Your expectations.  

Your beliefs and expectations go hand in hand with your results.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve had a black cloud hovering over you and everything seemed to be going wrong or you felt like something beyond your control needed to mysteriously shift to stop the suffering you experienced, what you may not have realized is that as you hesitantly waited for the next shoe to drop, your expectation of your misfortune perpetuated the cycle.  You blocked the flow of your desires on both mental and energetic levels which in turn affirmed your expectation of what you thought would happen.

The reverse is also possible in that if you expect things to work out for you in easy and unexpected ways, the Universe will comply with that expectation as well.  Your subconscious mind will surely always find experiences that meet and match the expectations you hold regardless of the outcomes they will produce.

Explore what you’ve been encountering in your world recently and reflect upon how your beliefs and expectations are impacting that experience.  Then be willing to shift any expectations so they more positively influence the life you live.

2.  Being ruled by rules.  

Sometimes we have goals and dreams we want to achieve yet we have set up so many rules for ourselves that it becomes difficult to actually achieve the things we want.  So rather than having the freedom to make choices of how you want to move forward, you are ruled by the rules you created that were intended to make things easier.

These are some common rules that many people have:

  • You have to wait until your children are out of the house before you can dedicate more time to your passion project.
  • You have to figure out how to do something on your own rather than seeking support when you know you’re stuck or having difficulty.
  • You have to pay for everything upfront rather than go on a payment plan for a good investment.
  • You have to put everyone else’s needs before you focus on your own.
Take a look at how your personal rules may be preventing your growth and opportunities and decide if your rules or your desires are more important.

3.  Your faith.

Tune into yourself and discover if you’ve lost faith in yourself or your ability to have the things you want.  Do you believe it’s possible for you?  Do you believe that everything works out for your highest good?

When we get caught up in fear, our energetic vibration becomes chaotic and causes resistance in receiving what we want.  When that happens, you need to lean into deeper trust that when you ask it is immediately given in the quantum field.  The time delay is only perceived in the physical world when you’re not in vibrational alignment with what you want.  A shift in positive feelings, thoughts and expectations will move you closer to receiving it.

Surrender your need to control the timing and the way your desires are unfolding for you.  Because sometimes, things aren’t working out the way you planned and that’s a good thing.  It often means that you’re being divinely redirected and something even better is in store for you.

It’s going to take some new strategies and a different perspective to reach your next level of personal growth and spiritual awakening.

With the right mindset and mentor, you can make some really amazing shifts in your health, happiness, and fulfillment this year.

It’s your time to create a life you don’t need to escape from so you can become who you’re meant to be.

Lots of love,

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