The spiritual side of self-sabotage

by | Feb 22, 2021

We’ve all been there before.  You tell yourself this time things are going to be different… and they are for a period of time. 

You’re making great strides, you’ve been keeping up with your new way of living for awhile, having success, and feeling really productive…  

Then one day it all stops.  The motivation, the drive, the energy and ambition to keep it up.  Poof!  

It might come together in a moment where you can feel yourself hit the wall.  BAM!  Everything crumbles.

Or it might be a slow decline as you start to justify why something else takes priority or why you can’t keep up with what was becoming your new normal.

Then here you are again: back in the old familiar place of disappointment and frustration, in the grips of self-sabotage.

Self-sabotage is often viewed as something negative to be avoided at all costs.  An evil that rears its head when you get sooo close to reaching your goal, only then to fall back into old destructive patterns.

Yet it’s the way of your subconscious mind to keep you safe in the known. 

But if you look deeper, you can discover the spiritual gifts hidden inside.

It shows you your boundaries, your edges… the places where you’ve pushed against the outer bounds of your identity and felt resistance.

Your self-sabotage highlights for you what the limitations your current way of thinking, believing, and behaving are confining you to.  

Behind everything you are doing, whether it’s helpful or harmful in achieving what you want for yourself, you are receiving a positive benefit from it.  There is something that you’re gaining from that thought or belief that is not being met through your new behavior.

The only way to overcome your inner resistance is to understand how you’re getting in your own way (the belief you hold) and create new beliefs that are aligned with the ultimate outcome you’d like to achieve.  

When you shift your mindset and your limitations, you shift your results too.

Now as you probably know, I teach mindset transformation and have done so for over 20 years. I’m here to tell you that everything you want is on the outside of your comfort zone.  You can have it all – everything you want in life – if you are willing to look within and discover what your life is teaching you. 

Then use that insight to propel yourself farther than you’ve ever gone before.  

You have the power to use everything in your life as a spiritual lesson to help move you closer to who you wish to become and how you want to show up in the world.  It’s easier than you think.

I believe in you.
Sending love,

P.S. I really want to help you become the person you need to be in order to live out your biggest dreams. So, I’m inviting you to hop on a call with me to talk about your situation where we can identify any self-sabotage or limited thinking getting in your way, and create an action plan to achieve everything you want in life.  Book your call here.


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