You keep telling yourself you want something different but it never happens. The overwhelm, general unease, and feeling of being off balance may subside for awhile, but it never seems to go away completely.
If this is the case for you, you are likely settling and sacrificing for ‘the greater good.” While this may appease you or others in the moment, it won’t get you any closer to feeling fulfilled and honoring the life you’re meant to live.
The longer you keep living this way, choosing others over yourself and the things that are important to you, the longer you delay the freedom and life that inspires you.
This is not about blaming and shaming, it’s about recognizing how you may be getting in your own way and what you’re willing to do to overcome it.
Imagine if you are in the same place a year from now… What needs to happen in order for you to feel satisfied with your growth and progress toward honoring the longings of your heart?
The deep connections, the meaningful time spent with loved ones, the spiritual impact only you can make, the peace and joy that comes with living a life aligned with purpose, …
Because right now, more than likely, you’re sending out a chaotic vibration into the universe that’s blocking everything you want for yourself. You want it, yet you’ve been resisting it.
The idea of having everything you dream of can cause issues when it comes to actually putting in the steps to make it happen:
- You need to decide what you want for yourself rather than living by default or only settling for the scraps of peace and joy that come to you, so you can actually choose what you want to create and experience in life.
- You need to identify (and overcome) the subconscious blocks that are keeping you stuck and preventing your success so you can smash through them and reach your potential.
- You need an actionable strategy to follow to predictably grow and expand your self-image, self-worth, and self-confidence so you can finally achieve your goals.
In order to create different experiences, you need to do different things. You’ll be challenged along every step of the way to the life that inspires you.
Different choices will be required. Uncomfortable feelings, outdated beliefs, and old wounds will surface. You’ll encounter your resistance and it will give you plenty of reasons why you need to back down, play small, and stay stuck.
As much as you resist, the internal discord of what you want compared to what it’ll require of you in order to achieve it, is nothing compared to the sorrow and regret you’ll experience when you look back upon your life and wonder what would have happened if you had found the courage to try.
This inner work – the deep mindset shifts in who you believe yourself to be and why your soul is here in this world in this space and time – requires bravery. It requires stepping into a vision of yourself that perhaps you can’t quite fully see yet (but are willing to take a step at a time to get there until you do).
If you’d like some help in looking at where you’re stuck and how to get unstuck, I’d love to chat with you. Reach out today to apply for a free exploratory strategy session and let me know how I can support you. We’ll talk about the inner work and the outer actions that will help you break through to the best version of you and your life that you long for.
You can do it and so much goodness is waiting for you once you start making those shifts.
P.S. You deserve a life that fills you with meaning and value, not one that you just keep going through the motions in. If you’re ready to take off the masks and get real with yourself about what it’ll take to elevate your life, then book a call. It’s absolutely free. There is a predictable way to create lasting change and shift everything into better alignment. I’d love to show you.