Sometimes life gives you things you never expect.
In an instant, your world can shift and everything changes.
Times like that are never easy.
Yet there is an opportunity within every obstacle.
It could be a health diagnosis, a change in relationship status, a financial situation, a career adjustment…
As much as we’d like to believe that we can control everything in our lives, there are things that are simply outside of our control.
Too often I’ve had conversations with someone who has been told that they’re to blame for what has come into their life. It’s a harmful belief that’s been circulating for nearly twenty years that says that you’re responsible for absolutely everything in your life – the good, the bad, and everything in between.
While I do agree that we are indeed co-creators in our lives, and that the universe delivers to us experiences that match our energetic vibrations, we are also not God. A portion of the divine, yes absolutely, but there is still a consciousness far beyond our human understanding.
Thoughts do become things yet we must also remember to make space for the mystical orchestration of our lives as well. Sometimes, things happen for reasons we simply do not understand nor are responsible for.
When something happens that takes causes you to re-evaluate major things in your life, make space for it.
Feel the feelings that come up and let them move through you. Reflect and inspect your role in how it came into your reality. Give yourself permission to process the situation, but be mindful to not allow yourself to get stuck in the intensity of what you are experiencing.
Then find the opportunity that is present.
Trust there is good that will come from it. A new understanding, a different perspective, an appreciation for something, a reordering of priorities…
The lesson is hidden within.
So breathe.
Trust.
Find the good.
Your ability to effectively navigate the unexpected depends upon what you focus on and how you allow yourself to move forward.
When you’re in the thick of it, remember you’re not alone.
Let’s have you book a call for us to get to know each other. We’ll map out a plan for you and help you figure out how to make the most of the opportunities in front of you.
Lots of love,
Krysti
